My Children

If you want to know, can say in an hour, my voice will sound may be more than ten times to prohibit or order from any of my children. In my opinion, they are always trying one thing after another and perhatikannya whether it can or not. Attempts to reach a decision in itself is sometimes caused some parents to taste label, 'My son ngada2', 'I am wild child', 'my child can not sit still reti' whatsoever.

After 14 years of a child, I also prohibits berkali2 my wife from using negative perkataan2 for children. For your own children because the mother is also a prayer kata2. For children who are contracted to prevent the act and to prevent us to test the child as the child who is alleged.

In fact, if excluded perkataan2 I mentioned it, serasanya we still do not quite understand the nature of a child. What we really want? 2-3-4 year old child up in the morning, shower and then sit back on the wall? Then wait for food and feed her and then leaned back on the wall? Then the call of sleep and sleep? Then woke up and lean back against the wall?

What does define us as a 'good boy'? Ah with our understanding. Kanak2 have fitrahnya own. We should not fly faster when they try it, and this. But every attempt they require attention from us. Each trial the child, there will be solution, but we will also take time to find the best formula to guide our children that.

Honestly, my heart feels easy when people say, "O God buasnya ngko children ..." but alhamdulillah la JAP more direct people or so with me. I just imejinnya only. So I will avoid to say the same words. In case there is a messy pursuit of their children in shops, I would say, "I learned budak2 surprising."

For each child learn self, it seems I need more study. I have three children and their behavior is not the same. I was lucky even though their behavior is different, but if given the shirt as an example, they never said, "Taknaklah, the ni is not good for Amin."

What we share, that is what they get. That is why I believe it will go back to what we teach in the end. My formula may be appropriate for me and so my formula is not good enough to make my child better.